S5: E18 The Insanity Cycle: Matt and Corie

Matt and I did a webinar and Q&A on the Insanity Cycle that
happens too often in marriage conflict. It was a two hour event,
the first hour public and the second a private Q&A over Zoom
with registered participants.


This is the first hour where Matt and I walk you through why
couples find themselves looping sometimes on the same argument-
for years. It is common for couples to get into an unhealthy
pattern of triggering each other. Getting out of that pattern is
the hard part. Once you start triggering each other, it is hard
to get out of that downward spiral we call the Insanity Cycle.
Are you ready to change the way you and your spouse fight? Are
you ready to end the unhealthy patterns and get back to
respecting each other?


 


Here is some of what we cover in this episode:


A walk through the Insanity Cycle and how couples stay stuck
in it

How a couple tends to include a Pursuer and a
Withdrawer 

How you are both feeling and saying the same thing but not
hearing each other

How the Pursuer and Withdrawer trigger each other to continue
the Insanity Cycle

Ways you can stop the Cycle of hurt and destruction in your
marriage

How you can play the "Maturity Game" speak lifegiving truth
to your spouse



If you would like to hear Part 2, where we take your questions
and dive deeper, you can find it on the LG Shop! This digital
download includes Part 1 & 2 Videos as well as a listening
guide to help you apply it to your life and marriage.  While
you're there, take a look at some of the other digital downloads
as well!