S6 E13 Restoring Trust after Deep Wounds

The USO is launching a new virtual series with Corie and Matt
Weathers on how military families can stay strong while apart.
Corie and Matt Weathers will share how they are keeping their
military marriage strong through a season apart - as well as tips
for how you can do the same.


Tools and concepts discussed during the series apply to all types
of military-initiated separations; from deployments and
trainings, to geo-bachelor tours, unaccompanied tours, and even
third shift schedules.


Restoring trust after it has been broken can be scary, confusing,
and difficult to navigate.  Depending on if you are dealing
small of large infractions, deep hurt in your relationship can be
healed and restored.  In this episode, Matt and I talk about
how you can ask for trust to be restored, or do the hard work to
earn it back.  Even if you have been devastated by betrayal,
there is hope.  Listen in and find out how. 


To access the Series dashboard, including the videos and
handouts: https://www.uso.org/campaign/mvp-youre-leaving-again


Forgiveness: https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-ajqyv-b8c9f1


 


My Strategy for Affair Recovery:
https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-5jwg4-b63b20


 


Here are some of the resources mentioned throughout the episode:
My interview with Dr. Mike Sytsma Here is also my podcast on
“Sin in a Christian Marriage” Part 1 & Part
2 

More Resources:


• Torn Asunder by Dave Carder. There is also
a workbook available for this book. (faith based)


• Unfaithful: Hope and Healing After Infidelity by Gary
& Mona Shriver (faith based)


• Secrets to Surviving Infidelity by Scott Haltzman


• After the Affair by Janis Spring


 


Rebuilding Trust Video – Using the image of a “trust
bucket,” Dr. Mike addresses rebuilding trust after an affair.


Setbacks in Marriage- The Podcast Episode Women &
the Tough Bible Verses– (Topic of Submission and gender roles in
the Bible- Authentic Intimacy) People Are More Important Than
Marriage– Authentic Intimacy, When you shouldn’t fight for your
marriage Sexual Intimacy and Post Affair with Mike Sytsma How do
Affairs Happen? New Life Church, Brady Boyd
Articles:

So You’ve Hit a Marriage Setback: 3 Steps Military Marriage: When
to Separate Mike Sytsma- Betrayal & Affair Recovery (articles
and video) Protecting Your Marriage from an Affair 
Books:

Mission Ready Marriage: My Life As An Active Duty
Wife Claire Wood Sacred Spaces: My Journey to the Heart of
Military Marriage Corie Weathers


 


If you are looking for professional help, be sure to check out
the LIfegiver Directory- full of clinicians that understand your
lifestyle.  Many of them are military spouses and veterans.
find it here: www.lifegiverdirectory.com


Find out more about me www.corieweathers.com  or
www.life-giver.org