Ever wondered what a man mourns when the world tells him he’s not
allowed to?
We rarely talk about men when we talk about mental health. From
childhood, boys are raised to “Be strong,” “Wag umiyak,” and
“Kaya mo ’yan”. Kaya pag lumaki na sila, they don’t know how to
ask for help, because the world expects them to survive
everything in silence.
In this episode, we dive into that hidden emotional world: what
happens after divorce, and how impossible expectations quietly
push men past their limits. We unpack burnout, support systems,
and the many forms of abuse such as emotional, verbal, at pati
yung subtle na pag-take advantage sa oras and generosity. This is
a confronting look at what men carry … and why this silence is
costing lives.
And our guest, Robert Rubin, opens up about his
own journey, from post-divorce depression to losing his support
system, to painfully rebuilding himself piece by piece. A tarot
professional, author, intuitive mentor, and host of The Gentleman
Warrior Podcast, Robert brings wisdom shaped by trauma, healing,
and lived experience. His perspective is raw, honest, and deeply
human, the kind of voice men rarely get to hear… and rarely get
to claim space for.
Tune in now if we want healthier men, families,
and relationships. Conversations like this can’t be optional
anymore.
Episode Timeline:
00:00 – Podcast Intro
03:18 – Robert Rubin Introduction
03:39 – Depression After Divorce
07:45 – Grief Without Support
11:21 – Reaching Personal Limits
12:55 – Causes Of Burnout
14:48 – Masculinity Gone Wrong
16:28 – Losing The Family Life
19:09 – Choosing Therapy
20:44 – Finding Right Therapist
26:14 – Importance Of Support
29:26 – Why Men Avoid Vulnerability
31:44 – Need For Safe Spaces
33:52 – Building Trust Slowly
37:29 – Gender Double Standards
41:56 – Respect In Relationships
45:40 – Being A Safe Partner
49:51 – Intuitive Awakening Explained
52:21 – Childhood Trauma Impact
55:23 – Tarot And Healing Work
1:00:22 – Choosing The Right Healer
1:03:27 – Closing Thoughts
Disclaimer:
This conversation is meant for self-reflection and awareness
only. It’s not a substitute for therapy, medical advice, or any
professional diagnosis. Kung may pinagdadaanan ka mentally or
emotionally, please seek proper help from a licensed
professional. Ang goal ng episode na ‘to ay magbigay ng insight,
hindi gamutan.
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