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Step into the energy of your goals with this powerful visualisation. By vividly imagining your desired reality and feeling its emotions, you bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be. This 10-minute guided practice strengthens belief, motivation, and alignment with your desires.


This meditation is by Expansive Space. Expansive Space is a self-development business on a mission to support you in reaching your potential so you can thrive in your life, relationships & career. This visualisation is from their Self-Development App, which includes a 5-step course to help you get clear on what you want, understand where you are, break through what’s holding you back, and take aligned action to move forward.


Website: www.expansivespace.com.au


We’d also love to offer your audience 30 days free on the app as a little gift. They can use the code SELFDOM at checkout or this link: https://expansivespace.mykajabi.com/offers/MYpo2yXr?coupon_code=SELFDOM.

Today is all about natural medicine, how we can heal our gut, balancing our hormones, endocrine disruptors and so much more. As I’ve mentioned before, gut health is something I have struggled with through out my life, and recently getting off the pill has brought some more in-balances so I am very excited for this guest!


Todays guest is Bianca Melas. A clinical naturopath and Alo Yoga’s pilates instructor! This girl glows, she oozes kindness too and is just a great role model for women. 


Watch the full episode here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9QA4z36XaD0

This guided visualisation helps you tap into the energy of confidence so you can embody it fully. Whether you're preparing for a big moment or just need a self-assurance boost, this practice will shift your mindset and empower you to show up with certainty. The guided meditation goes for around 7 minutes.


This meditation is by Expansive Space. Expansive Space is a self-development business on a mission to support you in reaching your potential so you can thrive in your life, relationships & career. This visualisation is from their Self-Development App, which includes a 5-step course to help you get clear on what you want, understand where you are, break through what’s holding you back, and take aligned action to move forward.


Website: www.expansivespace.com.au


We’d also love to offer your audience 30 days free on the app as a little gift. They can use the code SELFDOM at checkout or this link: https://expansivespace.mykajabi.com/offers/MYpo2yXr?coupon_code=SELFDOM.

Solo Q & A with me - I answer all your questions!

The next four weeks we have the incredible Rory Warnock on the podcast. Rory is a Breathwork Specialist and Ultramarathon Runner.


This week is a slow and deep breathwork sequence. Come back to this audio again and again to feel calm and centered throughout the day.

This week we decided to do an impromptu podcast about last weekends engagement. We answer your questions and share all the details on the proposal. 

The next four weeks we have the incredible Rory Warnock on the podcast. Rory is a Breathwork Specialist and Ultramarathon Runner.


This week is a slow and deep breathwork sequence. Come back to this audio again and again to feel calm and centered throughout the day.

This is the probably the most excited I’ve been for a guest on Selfdom. Today’s guest is Alexis Fernandez. If I could have one person in my mind at all times, it would be Alexis. Alexis and her podcast Do you Fucking Mind have helped me through break ups, have given guidance when I’ve felt lost with purpose and have also given me many laughs on my morning walks. 


Alexis is a huge inspiration to me with her self development books and journals. She is someone who shares uplifting and impactful content and I am beyond excited to chat to her today. 

The next four weeks we have the incredible Rory Warnock on the podcast. Rory is a Breathwork Specialist and Ultramarathon Runner.


This week is an evening breathwork sequence. Come back to this audio again and again to feel calm and centered throughout the day.

Breathwork has really become a more mainstream modality over the last few years. From once being seen as woo woo, to now buckets of evidence showcasing its ability to reduce stress and anxiety, regulate emotions, improve brain function and immune heath and heal trauma. 


From my own experience it has connected me back to my feminine energy and my body, given me presence and actually put me on the path to purpose by listening to my inner voice without distraction.


I am so excited to be deep diving into all things breath with the incredible Rory Warnock. Rory is a breathwork specialist and ultramarathon runner. I was connected at a Lululemon event last year and I have wanted to get him on the mic ever since. Not only will we get to listen to him today, but he will be sharing 4 breathwork sequences for us to follow along with on this months self love Thursday episodes so stay tuned for those. 

The next four weeks we have the incredible Rory Warnock on the podcast. Rory is a Breathwork Specialist and Ultramarathon Runner.


This week is a short and sweet relaxing breathwork sequence. Come back to this audio again and again to feel calm and centered throughout the day.

As I mentioned in my solo, during 2024, I played with this idea and had big breaks in between drinks. I really took notice of how I felt after every time I re-introduced alcohol into my life, and I found that the cons outweighed the pros every time. 


I want to say first and foremost that I would never ever judge anyone for drinking, this is just my own experience that I wanted to share for anyone who is sober curious or just wants to reduce their alcohol consumption. 


Since New York in October I haven’t had a drink, and I have never felt better. Over the silly season their were so many moments I could of drank, but honestly I have had so much fun going out, dancing and connecting without the alcohol. Being ok with being sober definitely took some time. I had an real moment at Bernie’s wedding when I wasn’t drinking, but still had the best time with everyone who was. I felt so happy by the music, the energy and the love in the room and I really thought ok right, this is the moment I stop drinking because I truely don’t need it. 


Another factor adding to this choice was acne flare up a few months ago. I had to reduce my sugar consumption and make other big life changes. Reducing stress and getting off the booze has significantly cleared my skin. This was a direct message from my body to stick to the habits that had me feeling my best. 


I also feel like I have just grown out of the party phase in my life. I am 30 this year and I can really feel this shift in me that I am craving quality time with fewer people, rather than just small chat with big groups. I am so much more drawn to a slower pace of life. 


On today’s episode I am going to talk about 5 learnings I’ve had since taking away alcohol into my life. I have really seen a big sober movement and it is super exciting to see. 

I encourage you to come back to these again and again. The perfect way to ground and centre yourself in this crazy thing we called life.

I am writing today from a pretty stressful moment in my life. My mum and I were meant to go to NZ for a mother and daughter get away. We had a 7 day cruise booked and we have been looking forward to this for months. The last few days have really been a nightmare with mum being rushed into Emergency surgery on Thursday night, and then feeling really unwell post operation, to now being the day before we were meant to leave and she is back in Emergency for the week. We’ve had to cancel our trip and are truely devastated. 


I honestly don’t know what I would do without my gratitude practice to be honest. Moments like this really test you, and I woke up so angry at the world, so frustrated at how unfair life has to be. I opened my journal and it was the last thing I wanted to do but I sat down and did it. It changed the narrative for me. I am so thankful mum is in Sydney for this, not stuck in the ocean on a cruise. It would of been a disaster if she was so sick on our trip. I am so grateful to live in the same city as mum and my family, and to be able to be there for her. I am so grateful for my own health and being able to go for a walk and move my body. The list really goes on and It changed my entire perspective this morning.


This story leads us into the solo episode for today which is how to manage stress. This has been a top requested episode so recording it today felt really fitting! I want to preface I am no stress management professional, but these are tips and tools that have worked for me. I hope you can take away something from today’s episode and if you love this episode, please make sure to subscribe and leave review - it really helps my channel.