#79 (ENG): Alien play in the bedroom. How to get weird,
wild & wonderfully curious.
Read the complete article - including a downloadable
PDF packed with language examples, scene ideas, toys,
and playful prompts - on my webpage.
So, here’s a fun truth about humans: give us a strange-looking
toy, a slightly odd texture, or a fantasy that lets us step out
of our everyday bodies, and suddenly we’re all willing to explore
the unknown like Mulder sprinting after a suspicious glow in the
woods.
Alien play isn’t about green body paint (unless you’re into
that), nor do you need encyclopaedic knowledge of nebulae. It’s
about curiosity. It’s about letting yourself touch, speak, and
play differently. It’s about lifting the pressure to “perform”
and instead asking, What would happen if we approached each other
like we’ve never met a human before?
It can be soft and exploratory, silly and giggly, or full of
consensual power dynamics: “You will remain still for
examination, human.” It can be a single line whispered during sex
or a full scene with sensory scanning, strange toys, and
non-verbal communication. Tentacle fantasies? Absolutely valid.
Scientists examining mysterious specimens? Love it. Aliens with
unusual biological quirks? Delicious.
For many people, alien play is also a wonderfully inclusive way
to experience desire. Aliens don’t come with preconceived ideas
about bodies. They don’t expect genitals to look or behave a
certain way. They don’t judge. They explore. And that makes the
fantasy incredibly liberating for trans lovers, disabled
partners, neurodivergent bodies, shy folks... Honestly? Anyone
who wants to feel desired exactly as they are.
Whether you want something as simple as adding a curious “What
does this bit do?” to your next intimate moment, or you’re ready
to strap in for a multi-tentacled mission, the beauty of alien
play is that there’s no right way to do it. Just curiosity,
imagination, and consent guiding you through the stars.
Prefer the transcript? Find it here.
I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating
ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!
Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on
Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com
More of me on Instagram
(@pleasepinchmehard) and my
webpage
(www.pleasepinchmehard.com)
My book SEX SEX SEX - Your
Workbook for Singles & Couples
My book GIVE IT TO ME!
on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an
Audiobook
My book SAVED IN NOTES...
on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback)
Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got
you: www.mrs-opel.com
Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at
lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe
Kommentare (0)
Melde dich an, um einen Kommentar zu schreiben.