The Neurodivergent Christmas Survival Guide: Dr Alison Lennox on Family, Burnout & Boundaries

Christmas is often described as joyful, but for many
neurodivergent people it can be overwhelming, exhausting and full
of hidden pressure. In this special episode, Dr Alison Lennox
returns to unpack why the festive season can feel so challenging
- and how preparation, boundaries and regulation strategies can
make a huge difference.


Ben and Alison discuss sensory overload, disrupted routines,
family expectations, social fatigue and the pressure to “perform”
throughout December. Alison shares practical, compassionate
advice on preparing for gatherings, setting boundaries ahead of
time, creating exit plans, managing burnout, supporting ND
children, and finding small moments to regulate even in busy
environments.


Whether you look forward to Christmas or quietly dread it, this
episode gives permission to approach the season differently -
with clarity, self-compassion and a plan that puts your wellbeing
first.


CW: This episode contains discussion of mental health crisis,
overwhelm and emotional distress, particularly around the festive
period.


If you are struggling, in emotional distress or feel unsafe,
please reach out:






Samaritans (24/7) - Call 116 123 or visit
https://www.samaritans.org


Shout Crisis Textline - Text
SHOUT to 85258


Mind – https://www.mind.org.uk


NHS 111 (urgent mental health support) –
https://www.nhs.uk/nhs-services/mental-health-services

If you are in immediate danger, call 999 or
go to A&E.






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Host: Ben Branson


Production Manager: Phoebe De Leiburné


Video Editor: James Scriven


Social Media Manager: Charlie Young


Music: Jackson Greenberg


Head of Marketing: Kristen Fuller


00:00 Introduction


00:47 Being Neurodivergent at Christmas: Why the Festive Season
Is Hard


3:34 Family Expectations, Routines and Holiday Pressure


5:00 Why the Festive Season Can Be Overwhelming for ND People


6:03 First Christmas After an ND Diagnosis: Handling Difficult
Family Reactions


10:24 Setting Boundaries Without Guilt & Planning Ahead to
Reduce Holiday Stress


14:40 Setting Boundaries Without Shame: ND Social Masking &
Avoiding Burnout


25:25 How to Support Neurodivergent Children at Christmas


30:30 Dr Alison’s Top Tips for Setting Healthy Boundaries


34:42 Dr Alison’s Festive Advice for ADHD’ers on Medication


36:00 Alcohol vs Neurodivergent Brains


39:50 The Importance of Preparation for ND Regulation at
Christmas


42:39 Managing Sensory Overload & Navigating Christmas
Traditions


45:54 What ND People Can Do If They or a Loved One Are in
Distress


48:03 Dr Alison’s Final Words of Advice: Q&A From Our
Listeners





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