Ich will, dass du mich magst

Warum willst Du von allen gemocht werden? Du magst doch auch nicht
alle. Sagt sich leicht, aber so viele von uns sind People-Pleaser.
So vielen von uns ist es so wichtig, was andere von uns denken.
Dabei schätzen wir unsere Wirkung auf andere oft völlig falsch ein
und machen uns zu viel Druck. Atze und Leon klären, wie das
gelassener geht. Fühlt euch gut betreut Leon & Atze Instagram:
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Werbepartnern findet ihr hier: https://linktr.ee/betreutesfuehlen
Tickets: Atze: https://www.atzeschroeder.de/#termine Leon:
https://leonwindscheid.de/tour/ VVK Münster 2025:
https://betreutes-fuehlen.ticket.io/ Quellen: Das Hauptreview, auf
das wir uns in der Folge beziehen: Flykt, A., Hörlin, T., Linder,
F., Wennstig, A. K., Sayeler, G., Hess, U., & Bänziger, T.
(2021). Exploring emotion recognition and the understanding of
others’ unspoken thoughts and feelings when narrating
self-experienced emotional events. Journal of Nonverbal Behavior,
45(1), 67-81. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10919-020-00340-4 Weitere
Studien: Ickes, W., Stinson, L., Bissonnette, V., & Garcia, S.
(1990). Naturalistic social cognition: Empathic accuracy in
mixed-sex dyads. Journal of personality and social psychology,
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Sels, L., Ickes, W., Hinnekens, C., Ceulemans, E., &
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greater empathic accuracy during relationship conflict. Journal of
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https://psycnet.apa.org/doi/10.1037/fam0000871 Berlamont, L.,
Hodges, S., Sels, L., Ceulemans, E., Ickes, W., Hinnekens, C.,
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during conflict interactions in couples: it’s complicated!.
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Empathic accuracy: Judging thoughts and feelings.
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Ickes, W., Hinnekens, C., Ceulemans, E., & Verhofstadt, L.
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accuracy during relationship conflict. Journal of Family
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https://psycnet.apa.org/doi/10.1037/fam0000871 Gilovich, T.,
Medvec, V. H., & Savitsky, K. (2000). The spotlight effect in
social judgment: an egocentric bias in estimates of the salience of
one's own actions and appearance. Journal of personality and social
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Vorauer, J. D., & Sucharyna, T. A. (2013). Potential negative
effects of perspective-taking efforts in the context of close
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personality and social psychology, 104(1), 70.
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1999. Everyday egocentrism and everyday interpersonal problems. In
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Interfaces of Social and Clinical Psychology, ed. RM Kowalski, MR
Leary, pp. 69–95. Washington, DC: Am. Psychol. Assoc. Bond Jr, C.
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K., & Medvec, V. H. (1998). The illusion of transparency:
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Cameron, J. J., Holmes, J. G., & Pearce, D. G. (2003).
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amplification bias. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology,
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