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How to Care Less What People Think

How to Care Less What People Think

Soul Gum vor 1 Jahr

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The bad news is you’re always going to care what people think.
The good news is it doesn’t have to control your life. In
this episode, I walk through 9 ways to rethink your relationship
with external validation. If you want to be done letting other
people’s opinions steer your every move, this one’s for you.

EPISODE OUTLINE

00:00 Intro

05:28 1. Caring what people think is natural

07:14 2. You can’t control how you feel, but you can control what
you do

16:07 3. You should care what some people think

18:16 4. Not caring what people think ≠ not caring about people

19:45 5. Chasing approval always backfires eventually

26:21 6. You don’t know what people think

30:29 7. Other people are not thinking about you as much as it
feels like they are

35:32 8. You care more about other people’s opinions when you
don’t have your own

37:28 9. It’s okay to want to be with people who make you feel
good

39:27 Lightning round recap

42:29 Challenge

EPISODE LINKS

• The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz

• Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl

• The Courage to Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga

• The Second Sex by Simone de Beauvoir

• The Art of Living by Epictetus

• Spotlight Effect Study

• Social Rejection Triggers Physical Pain Brain Centers

• Surgeon General's Report on the Health Impact of
Loneliness

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