Ep15: Your First Rope Scene (part 2) - First Scene Examples

Your first rope scene can feel like a big deal - you’ve been
waiting a long time for this, and you’re finally ready - but where
are you going to do it? Fox and Mya discuss the context you might
want to do your first rope scene in, and the pros and cons of
different situations, such as a semi-public party or rope jam,
versus private. They talk about their own first scenes, and you can
learn why Mya did her first rope scene at a kink party rather than
privately, despite the fact she’s an introvert and it wouldn’t have
been her first choice, and how Fox did his first rope scene in a
very Fox-way. They also talk about the risks of doing your first
scene or suspension from a photo (and why it’s probably not a great
idea), and co-created scenes versus rigger-led. And finally they
share two simple ideas that you could steal or build on for your
own first scene, if you’re feeling a bit blank about it all, one
sexual, and one non-sexual. (For the first half of this episode,
where we talk about the other things you need to do to prepare for
your first scene, from safety to practicalities, listen to episode
14.) ### Let us know in the comments here on Fetlife: What was your
first rope scene? Share as much detail as you like below.