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Why aren’t men making effort in dating RN?

Why aren’t men making effort in dating RN?

Are We Into This? with Cosmopolitan vor 1 Monat

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We all know that dating is in the pits RN — we’re burned out from
the apps, frustrated by convos that go nowhere, and tired of bad
first dates. Too often, it feels like we’re giving a lot and
getting, well, not much back. Lately, this feels especially
true for those of us who date men. You’ve only got to look at this
season of Love Island to see the serious lack of effort the boys
are putting into — in villa terms — grafting the girls, and we’re
seeing this IRL too. From lazy dates and slow replies to a serious
dearth of question-asking, we’re enduring an epidemic of low-effort
men. Ringing true for you? This week, Millie and Clare are asking
why men seem to be making such little effort in dating right now.
Is it really gendered, or just a general modern dating thing? And,
either way, what the hell can we do about it? Comment on the
episode or on our socials @CosmopolitanUK with your opinions. Plus,
got another topic you’d like Millie and Clare to dive into? Let us
know… we’re providing a public service here, people!