Childhood Trauma, Birth Control & Your Gut: The Perimenopause Reckoning with Cynthia Thurlow

Your gut doesn't lie — and in perimenopause, it's sending
distress signals most doctors completely ignore.


Nurse practitioner, two-time TEDx speaker, and Everyday
Wellness podcast host Cynthia Thurlow joins Dr. Stephanie for
a conversation that starts in Morocco (food poisoning, a
hospitalization, and a perimenopause wake-up call nobody saw
coming) and ends with a clear-eyed framework for supporting your
gut, your bones, your immune system, and your sleep through the
hormonal chaos of midlife.


Episode Overview:
(0:00) Intro/Teaser
(7:00) How a Parasite Became a Perimenopause Wake-Up Call
(11:00) Why Women Resist the Word “Perimenopause”
(16:00) The Gut-Hormone Connection Nobody’s Talking About
(21:00) The Medical System Was Never Built for Middle-Aged
Women
(30:00) Body Composition, the Scale, and the Comments That
Stick
(34:00) The ACE Study: How Childhood Trauma Rewires the Gut and
Immune System
(41:00) Oral Contraceptives, Antibiotics, and the Developing
Microbiome
(48:00) The Estrobolome
(53:00) The 6–12 Window
(56:00) Sleep, Stress, and Nutrition — The Three Biggest Levers
in Perimenopause
(1:02:00) Advice for Mothers of Daughters
(1:05:00) Cynthia’s Personal Daily Protocol
(1:13:00) The Menopause Gut: Elevator Pitch and Where to Find
It
(1:15:00) After Party — Dr. Stephanie’s Key Takeaways


Resources mentioned in this episode can be found at
https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep466/


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