WORST ADVICE EVER!

I share with you the worst advice that could ever be given to
you!





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Podcast Summary:





‘Play it safe’ is the worst advice you can get





Advice from people close to us is always welcome. After all, they
only want the best for us. Still, the ‘play it safe’ advice is
the most common one and also the worst piece of advice you can
get. By the time you’re done reading you’ll know why.





First things first. What does it mean to ‘play it safe’?
Obviously, no one close to you wants your harm or to see you get
in trouble. So, the easiest way to prevent you from experiencing
failure is to make you believe that keeping trouble at bay is
your best solution.





The thing is that if you want a life filled with experience,
success and free of regrets, then you have to do the exact
opposite. TROUBLE IS GOOD.


Look at it this way; nobody lives forever. And you probably don’t
want your last thought to be ‘I could have done more’. So how do
you go about it? Well, that depends on what kind of life you want
to live.





The whole ‘play it safe’ state of mind is a general rule to live
by for those who are not after anything big. Those people are
happy with a comfortable life, nothing spectacular. Are you that
type of person? Truth be told, most out there are, but if you
kept reading so far, then you’re probably not.





If you want to live with excitement and genuine happiness that
goes into anything you do, then safety is not something you want
to carry all over around with you.





Taking risks is an indispensable part of succeeding in your life.
Does that mean that every risk you take is going to be a win for
you? No! Of course not. Because failure is also in the game.
Still, it’s far better to fail over and over doing something you
love than to succeed doing something you hate.





Sure, nobody likes defeat. But you’d be surprised to know that
getting beat up in life doing something you truly enjoy gives you
a sense of fulfilment – not to mention that you’re still making
progress – whereas succeeding in areas that are within your ‘safe
zone’ will leave you with that same feeling of misery and
emptiness that you had in the first place.





Besides, what does failing mean after all? 


Most people think that failing in any aspect of their lives, for
instance a relationship, is a traumatic and haunting experience.
In reality it’s the best lesson you can get.





Take a minute to think about it and ask yourself. What is better?
Reading about something in a book, or experiencing it in real
life?





The verdict:


Don’t lower the level of your life to stay safe and satisfy
others. Don’t study to make your parents proud, if it’s not
something that will make you proud above all. In other words,
don’t try to make others happy at the cost of your own happiness.
Keep in mind that life is not forever, so stop living like you’ve
got all eternity.





Oh, and next time you consider taking advice from someone, take a
moment first to put yourself in their shoes and see if you would
trade places with them. If not, then it’s probably best to say
‘Thank you, but no thank you’!